The following guest post was written by Maria Elena Piña-Fonti, drug President of the National Association of Hispanic Nurses—NY Chapter, mind in honor of #ISupportYou Week. I was thrilled she wanted to contribute something, decease as nurses play an integral part in ensuring that new parents and their infants get the healthiest start possible, while respecting the need for autonomy and an individual approach to care. I hope more health care providers will join Maria in celebrating ISY Week, by helping new parents understand their rights, offering education in a culturally sensitive manner, and showing the world the true meaning of “informed choice”.
Infant Nutrition and Self-Advocacy
by Maria Elena Piña-Fonti, MA, RN
As a nurse, I come in contact with parents from all walks of life. First-time parents, experienced parents, confident parents, and sometime confused parents. What I tell parents—both the mothers and the fathers—is that it is important to have as much information as possible about all types of infant nutrition in order to make an educated, confident decision about what is best for your family.
Exclusive breastfeeding, formula feeding, and combination feeding are all safe ways to feed an infant. Parents are given a lot of information, advice, and opinions, on caring for their children—especially when it comes to infant nutrition. But how mothers and fathers feed their baby is a personal decision, one that can be influenced by many factors such as medical issues and returning to work.
As parents, once you make an informed decision about how to nourish your baby, you—and your choices—should be respected and supported.
You are your own—and your baby’s—best advocates to ensure that you have access to all the information and support you need to be successful parents and to raise healthy and happy children. You should feel comfortable with your choices and confident and empowered that you know best what is right for your own family.
The following are some helpful tips to help advocate for you and your baby:
1. Speak up. You and your healthcare providers are a team working together for the health and well-being of your baby. You should always feel like a valued and respected member of this team. Don’t be afraid to ask questions about your choices and preferences.
2. Be open and honest. Share with your healthcare provider any concerns regarding health conditions or employment that may impact breastfeeding, formula feeding, or a combination of the two. They can only help you if they know the complete picture.
3. Make your needs and wishes known and respected by your network, family, and friends. Once you’ve made up your mind, make it clear that you have considered all of the information and are comfortable with your decision. Ask for their support of your decision.
4. It’s okay to change your mind. If your feeding plan is not going as you wished, it’s alright to change your plan. Don’t be upset. You have not failed. Remember the importance of closeness and touch to a baby.
5. Get answers and information. Your healthcare provider should fully support you and can refer you to resources you may need in making the best decisions for you, your baby, and your family.
Nobody knows the needs of you, your baby, or your family better than you do!
What parents need most is support, not shame or judgment. #ISupportYou parents who breastfeed, #ISupportYou parents who formula feed, #ISupportYou parents who combination feed. No matter how you feed your babies, #ISupportYou.
Maria Elena Piña-Fonti is President of the National Association of Hispanic Nurses—NY Chapter, an association dedicated to community advocacy and well being, which believes parental engagement, education, and choice is essential to parental empowerment.